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Story
from TamikaFelder.com
"Vivacious,
sweet and energetic:" is a good way to
describe Tamika L. Felder.
This
impressive young woman has a natural ability
to captivate nearly everyone she meets, both
individuals and large audiences.
Born
and raised in Summerville, South Carolina,
she grew up in an affectionate family within
a tight knit community. It was a life full
of Southern charms, until
a great tragedy entered her world.
The
day before Tamika’s 17th birthday, her
beloved father died following a battle with
colon cancer. Tamika was devastated. Her
father had been her best friend
and confidant. She was to become a High
School senior that next semester, something
they both had looked forward to for so long.
It was an extremely difficult time, but
picking up and rebuilding the shattered
pieces of her life was the only option.
After
graduating from college, Tamika made the
hard decision to leave home, pack up her
dreams and her bags and move to Washington,
DC to begin work as a Television Producer.
That
decision soon paid off. Tamika’s engaging
personality and determination landed her in
a number of successful positions within the
television industry.
In
May, 2000, at the age of twenty-five, Tamika
was diagnosed with advanced Cervical Cancer.
Devastated by this grim prognosis, her world
began to fall apart
-- for the second time. She had long
dreamed, as most young women do, of one day
marrying and having children of her own. But
now she was told by her doctor that she
would have to undergo a Radical Hysterectomy
for advanced Cervical Cancer -- immediately.
Emotionally drained by the realization that
she would never be able to bear
children, Tamika gathered her strength to
face another painful decision -- to have her
womb surgically removed in order to save her
life.
Tamika
had to learn more about the facts of her
condition, and to coax herself to get it
"together". That period would
produce the most demoralizing, yet
triumphant moments in Tamika’s life. Day
by day, as she became more determined to
seize control of her life, the options
became clearer. One option meant freezing
her eggs in order to maintain the ability to
reproduce in the future with the help of a
surrogate uterus. But that was something she
would have to do before she started
chemotherapy and radiation therapy.
Unfortunately, with all the complicated and
costly medical expenses from the cancer
treatment, Tamika was unable to afford this
procedure, even though she had made
strenuous efforts to raise money. Not only
was she unable to meet the one month
fund-raising deadline criteria, but the
insurance company would not consider this
procedure necessary.
This
early defeat soon gave way to Tamika’s
present triumph: she has been declared
cancer-free at the moment. A very thankful
Tamika feels it is her purpose in life to
educate as many women--especially young
women who feel immune to the problem-- about
the devastating threat of Cervical and other
Gynecological Cancers as possible. She has
pushed writers, producers, and celebrities
to help
her educate women: "I don’t want this
to happen to another person who is able to
prevent it," she says.
Tamika
is currently producing an Awareness campaign
that includes a documentary film,
"Beautiful Women: The Young Faces of
Cancer". Her story was also featured
in the June, 2003 issue of Essence Magazine.
You
may see Tamika anywhere from a celebrity
social event to a college auditorium to
rallying the troops in the grocery line. She
travels the country on her
mission, and she may be speaking at an event
in your city very soon.
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